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It was a strange thing to say to someone who had, at one point, been my best friend. But with people increasingly moving their communication from IRL to behind a screen, this cold behaviour has become fairly common.

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I must be a horrible person. I met Jess through mutual friends. Our friendship grew slowly over a few years — a text here and there, hanging out and textung at parties, then the odd lunch. When she went through a bad break-up we ended up spending more and more time together. At first I just put it down to the give and take of friendship. This is how it can be sometimes with those closest to us, right?

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BBC Three It was when my father got into financial trouble that things started to change. He lost his job and my family fell into severe debt.

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My parents' marriage became strained and, in the end, they split up. I was in pieces. Although I was well into my twenties, the idea that my home life was so unstable and my parents were scrambling around trying to survive was deeply coountry. I rarely made it through a day without escaping to the office toilet to cry.

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Jess was one of the first people I opened up to about all this. At first, she was very supportive, calling me regularly to see how I was.

But after a few weeks that wore off and suddenly I found myself thinking how self-involved she seemed. Every conversation.

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One - would circle back to her problems. Even the ones where, in theory, she was trying to help me work through my family worries.

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It started to drive a wedge between us. I realised she just enjoyed moaning about them to anyone who would listen. I began to see her as spoilt and needy - she had a lovely new boyfriend, a decent job and, thanks to her parents buying her a flat, a free place to live - what more could she possibly want? Looking back, I can see now the task of figuring out who you are in your mid-twenties can be stressful and daunting.

Worse, it just felt like every time I turned to her for support, it just wasn't there. I found myself exhausted by the idea of seeing her and dodging meet-ups, frirnd work and my sister coming to town. Slowly, I stopped texting her back — once, twice, three times.

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With everything else going on, not speaking was just easier. I was in the middle of a meeting at work a few months later, when my phone flashed. I was shocked. And that was it — our friendship was over in three WhatsApp messages.

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After the anger faded and my family situation improved, I started to wonder how she was. Countyr time I would walk through her area, I would scan the streets, imagining what it would be like to bump into her. I knew, deep down, that I owed her an apology.

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It felt weird to think she was so nearby and I found myself typing her a message. Well, I have. We sat down and I focused on the drinks order to hide my nerves. After a few awkward minutes of countfy used to sharing the same air again, we started to catch up on the last three years.

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She was married now, she was working as a PA to her dad and she was moving out of the city. I updated her on my new job, the highs and lows of online dating and saving for a deposit. We were strangers and friends, at the same time. It was weird but it also felt strangely ok.

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I knew it was up to me to get things started. I felt terrible. She confessed that she too had felt drained at times by our friendship and apologised too for not realising how distressed I was.

But in reality, I knew this was probably the last time I would see her. The trust in our friendship was gone - on both sides. To paraphrase Maya Angelou, people might forget what you said and did but people will never forget how you made them feel — and I had made her feel awful. But we both knew it would never happen. I gave her a hug and, finally, said a proper goodbye. This article was originally published on 20 October :.